World within World

ecommerce-3562005_1920We have a habit of getting ourselves into the most terrible mess and the Lord having to get us out of it. This has been true from the beginning of time and today is no different. How do we do it? If nothing else we’re consistent.

Amid all the conspiracy theories, we are fighting a faceless enemy. We don’t know how it evolved, how its developing or where it is going. But we do know it is divisive and destructive. Mankind is trying to come together in love, but from a distance. To say that the global horizon is already unrecognisable, is an understatement. In the twenty first century, the world is fighting for survival again. But how are we staying on top of it. Where is the help coming from?

Well, help is coming from the most unexpected place, the Virtual World!

For a long time now the virtual world has existed within our world. We dip in an out of it at will drawing from it the necessities to assist in our physical world. Until now, a world where some go to hide, seeking safety within its walls of anonymity,  others to build an online profile to progress a career, socialise or study; some to help others and some to destroy – the reasons are endless. It is known by many names, the world wide web, the internet, online networking, social media… all attributes of that world. Many have resisted it through fear, lack of knowledge or relevant skills, lack of affordability, misunderstanding or misuse, again the reasons are endless. But here it is now, a world we can live in, mirroring our physical world as much as possible.

We are not in a physical war with other nations, we are not being attacked by armed forces, we don’t think it is an alien invasion… but it is causing us to take unprecedented steps to protect our lives and our livelihood.


The virtual world, now at the forefront of our very existence, is host to our worship, education, shopping – actually it was always host to my shopping! Governments are governing countries via social media and virtual meetings. And while our world is not thriving at the moment and nations are concerned about when to kick start their economies, another world is thriving alongside the virtual world. The natural world… nature and the animal kind.

With the reduction in human interaction – the natural world and the ozone have never had it so good!! This is something to be thankful for. In this time of pain and suffering, loss and uncertainty, something is thriving; preservation of the planet. Reduced carbon footprint, changes in the way we work and socialise, is giving the planet a break.

Previous generations with the absence of our virtual world, would not have been able to cope with this outbreak as well as we have. If we think we are not coping, imagine if this was the age when the virtual world did not exist.

People are missing the simple things in life, going to their places or worship, going for walks, eating ice-cream – not the traffic jams or the break neck speed at which life was going with all it’s stresses; just the simple things. And many will be pleased that nature is getting a break as well! Is this time to reflect on changes to our way of life and assess how we can live better? Time to put things in perspective and think of others before ourselves? Whatever happens it cannot be business as usual when CO-VID 19 begins to subside.

Our strength comes from the Lord and His world cannot be destroyed, so have faith that we will come out of this. But will be we better people or worse – that is the question?

Scripture for today
Psalm 93:1 NKJV

The Lord is clothed, He has girded Himself with strength. Surely the world is established, so that it cannot be moved.



2020 was ‘my year,’ I claimed it… I had plans! Great plans! Complete my third book by June; organise a sponsor weekend for the network of churches of which I am a member; take a long awaited and much needed holiday in Jamaica and do a sponsored trek up Blue Mountain, the highest point on the Island; and the list goes on. Whilst it is good to plan, life teaches us not to get too ahead of ourselves. In the Bible, the book of James tells us that tomorrow is not promised to us, so before we make the big plans, we should ∗check in with the Lord, if this is His will for our lives!

2018 was an awful year for me and I was glad to see the back of it. 2019 was a year for gathering my strength focusing on the Lord and finding out His perfect will for my life. After allowing Him to build me up physically, spiritually and mentally, I approached 2020 with ‘great expectations.’ Time to mobilise and get moving again; or so I thought.

To say that ‘2020 did not start as planned,’ is the understatement of the decade. “A Blitzkrieg on humanity,” is how I describe it. Spiritual warfare of the worst kind. And just to be clear… God did not inflict this on the world and He is the only one who can take us out of it and heal us. The attack crept silently, not so threatening at first but then picked up pace faster than the world could respond. All nations thrown into a frenzy of identifying the nature of it, trying to fight it and slow it down in the hope of eventually finding a cure for it. Fear, distrust, panic blame all fought for their place on this universal stage!

While the Coronavirus is attacking the very core of humankind, causing the afflicted to die alone away from family and friends, there is only one force that can handle it, the force of Good – God! Mankind has always been tested and fallen fowl of Evil; the things that are not of God. The enemy has and will continue to fight hard to destroy the object of God’s love… US! Out of love God created us, out of love He sent His Son to die for us, out of love He delivered us from a hopeless existence and gave us Salvation. Out of love He gave us a HOPE in Him!

A force that separates us from each other, isolates us, prevents us from earning our living, prevents us from helping each other; a force that causes many to be selfish and to seek only to help themselves. A force that threatens relationships and the family bond, is a blitz on mankind! It is destructive. It is at this time that those who know how to pray need to ‘stand in the gap’ and intercede on behalf of the world. Christians, people of God… this is not a time to get carried away with our limited view of what is happening, nor is it time for conspiracy theories. We cannot see the enemy’s endgame, so we focus on God so He can reveal what is happening in the spiritual world and counteract it.

When the enemy comes in like a flood, the Lord will lift up a standard against him (Isaiah 59:19 NKJV). We need to be ready and available, obedient and seeking God’s counsel so that He can lift up His standard in us.

2020 may have started with a blitzkrieg on mankind but there will be no swift victory for the enemy. We lose the battle when we lose hope, and hope is in abundance. God’s beautiful creation will not meet an untimely end. It is not over until He says it’s over. Be aware of false prophets who will be riding high on the ‘doomsday’ wave. This is the start of 2020 but it is not the end!


∗Scripture for today
James 4:13-15

13 Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” 14 Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15 Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.”

Making It Count!

Make it count

Today I made an egg free cake! It was almost dairy free, but alas, I used dairy butter as that was all I had. Whilst this was not a big deal in the age of vegans, vegetarians and all manner of ‘free from’ foods; it was a very big deal for me. Being an awesome baker and cake decorator, I love baking with large free range eggs and full fat milk among other over indulgent ingredients. But during these desperate times, many of us don’t readily have all the ingredients in our homes, so we have to adapt to our new environment. The panic buyers wiped out my local shops so eggs suddenly became an endangered species and with one egg in my fridge I decided to make my very first cake without eggs. As I searched online for a recipe, with the idea developing in my head, I decided to use coconut milk instead of cow’s milk, but I was scuppered with the butter, I only had my faithful stork in the fridge so no dairy free option.

Vegan and ‘free from’ cakes were definitely on my radar for the future, but being faced with unprecedented and unforeseen circumstances, the future arrived a little earlier than anticipated. I used the creative mind that God blessed me with and came up with an alternative. Not quite vegan, not quite dairy free but somewhere in the middle… and it was gorgeous!

I have found that my most creative moments and often the birth of a talent or a new direction in my life, have almost always been born out of the greatest struggles that I was faced with, and this time is no exception. Isolation, quarantine, social distancing, is the new norm and we have to find a way to make these moments count! Many have died and many more will die before life can return to normal. Families are grieving because their loved ones were taken so suddenly and alone, they were not able to be there for them. We are still alive, we have hope in the God who created us, who sent His Son Jesus to die for us and who rose again from that death! How long this will continue remains to be seen; but this silent killer will not be hurried on it’s journey. Sitting at home vegetating is not an option. We must use this time wisely. Where there is life there is hope and we can do wonders with it. “We will get through this.”

What about that book you have been threatening to write for decades, or the one you have been trying to read for months. And for us Christians, what about that Bible – yes that one. The one that is food for our spirit and teaches us of the signs of the times and what to do when things like the Coronavirus hits; giving us hope in perilous times. Encourage someone who is not coping very well, or start that exercise regime on your living room floor, up and down the stairs or in your back garden. If life got in the way before, use this time wisely now. How about putting some quality time into studies or time to reflect! This very unusual time is unparalleled and although we hope never to experience it again, we must remain positive, hopeful and expectant.

We have the ability to adapt to our circumstances, so dig deep. Focus on the positives that can come out of this situation and not on the negatives. Look to the only One who has the answers and can guide you through. The world was on one path and now we are on another and will never be the same when we arise from this situation. But we know with certainty that WE WILL ARISE from it!


Verse for today
Romans 5:3-5 NIV

3 Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

Make it count!




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Learn to pray like Jesus!

Pray The Father will help you to connect to the one Person that matters, and the one Person who can answer your prayers; God. All things are possible through Him.

Prayer is one of the most essential elements of life, yet so many struggle to understand it. Whether you know Jesus Christ as your personal Saviour or not; Pray the Father will teach you how to have a real relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Pray into the Holy of Holies, which is the presence of God.

  • Do you want to pray like Jesus Christ?
  • Do you want to get to know God for yourself?
  • Are you struggling to understand what prayer is, how to pray or how often to pray?
  • Do you feel confused, misguided and guilty because you are not praying?
  • Have you converted from a religion to the Christian Faith and want to learn more about praying in the name of Jesus?
  • Are you confused by religious rules on prayer?

Get answers to these questions, and more! Learn how to nurture your relationship with God, speak to Him and hear when He speaks to you. Spend time in His presence by praying into the Holy of Holies.

Pray the Father’s beautiful collection of prayers and words of encouragement will inspire and empower you to a greater understanding of Prayer!

Pray the Father – Excerpt

Chapter 1

Who am I?

You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image and likeness of God, your Father. There can be no better compliment in this world than to be made in the image of our Father in heaven. Being like Him should be a natural way of life for us, but we make life so much more difficult than it needs to be. If God knew we couldn’t be like Him, He would not have asked us to live a holy and righteous life as He does.

Mankind’s first state was that of holiness, love and obedience to God. Our current state however, is shockingly far from what it was or should be; but not impossible to regain. God does not ask us for the impossible. There is no impossibility in Him. The all-knowing, all-powerful, ever present Creator of the universe, doesn’t do average.

“Our world was average until He stepped into it.”

You are strong, because He is strong
You can love, because He is love
You are beautiful because He is beautiful
You will endure, because He endures
You have power, because He is Power
You are misunderstood, because He is misunderstood.

“Get to know Jesus Christ, then you will begin to know yourself.” You can only do this when you communicate with Him and we do this through Prayer.

What is Prayer

And all things, whatsoever you shall ask in
prayer, believing, you shall receive.
Matthew 21:22

Prayer put simply is the way in which we communicate with God by speaking to Him, listening to Him when He speaks to us and praising Him; as songs are prayers too. Christians must pray! Every Christian has direct access to God which means we do not need a high priest as a mediator to pray to God on our behalf. Praying is a two-way communication between you and God, as He will answer you. God does speak to us and we learn how to hear His voice through prayer and spending time with Him.

When you start praying to God your world will change overnight, literally.  You will find strength you didn’t know you had, you will have clarity of mind, you will have joy even when you are sad, because that joy is in Christ. You will hear Him clearly in your Spirit and start making the right decisions in your life. In short you will be victorious in Christ and this will frustrate the enemy; Satan.

The changes in your life will be apparent to you and to others.  The pieces of the puzzle that is called life will begin to fit together perfectly.  This does not mean you won’t have challenges, because you will. But it does mean that you will be able to deal with whatever life throws at you.

Who should I pray to?

Many are not sure who to pray to and believe they can pray to anyone out there in the hope that someone will hear and answer them. If you have little or no concept of prayer, are confused and seeking answers from God, He will answer you. As a Christian, we need to know who to pray to. The Christian should only ever pray to God the Father; Jehovah. Jesus is our example and we learn from Him, who to pray to and how to pray. He always and only ever prayed to His Father, who is also our Father…

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Identity Crisis

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And God said unto Moses, I Am That I Am: and He said, Thus shall you say unto the children of Israel, I Am hath sent me unto you.
Exodus 3:14

Do you know who you are, or more to the point, do you know who you are in Christ? Since the fall of mankind the world itself has been in an “identity critical” state. Who are we? Where did we come from? How long have we been here? With one theory after another, one experiment after another, one book after another endlessly emerging in an attempt to answer these questions. But as we so often do in life, we complicate matters. God made life so simple for us and we complicated it. He is still making it simple for us and we are still complicating it.

Who we are and what we do matters! But, if we don’t know who we are or what our purpose is, how can we fulfil it? Moses in the book of Exodus (the second book of the Bible found in the Old Testament,) is called by God for a great purpose; but goes through the same challenges we are faced with when we are called into the kingdom.

Exodus 3:10-13
Come now therefore, and I will send you unto Pharaoh, that you may bring forth my people the children of Israel out of Egypt. And Moses said unto God, Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt? And he said, Certainly I will be with thee; and this shall be a token unto thee, that I have sent thee: When thou hast brought forth the people out of Egypt, ye shall serve God upon this mountain. And Moses said unto God, Behold, when I come unto the children of Israel, and shall say unto them, The God of your fathers hath sent me unto you; and they shall say to me, What is his name? what shall I say unto them?

  • God called Moses, and gave him a great purpose; a type and shadow of the Apostles sent out by Jesus many generations later.
  • A humble shepherd was elevated to go before Pharaoh, the king of Egypt and tell him to let God’s people go.
  • He was then directed to lead God’s people out of bondage and slavery and into a promised land… no mean feat!
  • Although Moses answered the call, he was unsure, insecure, lacked confidence and didn’t really know where he fitted in God’s plan.
  • At this point he didn’t know or understand his purpose.
  • He had not yet learnt to trust completely in God.
  • But God reassured Him, and was with him all the way.

As Christians, do we really know who we are in Christ? If someone came up to you and asked you what your purpose is or what have you been called to do, would you have an answer? On the occasions I have asked this question over the years I have often been met with blank stares. Very rarely do I get a confident answer. Some will tell you what their positions are but still don’t really know what their purpose is!

Unfortunately in far too many 21st century churches; there is great focus on title, status and positions. The worldly VIP mentality of self importance is alive and thriving with many not knowing what Christ has called them to do, but instead dictating their own destiny! This doesn’t end well. The Lord is not impressed with titles, positions, statuses or self importance… But, He is impressed with faithfulness, obedience, humility and being the best ‘bondservant’ we can while in His service. It is good to remember that Jesus was never given any titles while He was on earth. No Emperor, King or Religious Leader bestowed any titles on Him and indeed He refused those who tried to push Him in that direction. He knew who He was and what He came to do, and He did it.

When we come to the Lord, we must focus on having a real relationship with God and begin to seek the Lord to find out what our purpose is. God is the only one who can tell you what you have been called to do. Moses had a real relationship with God. He talked to God daily, asked questions and heard when God spoke to Him. After a few challenges here and there, his obedience and faithfulness to God enabled him to fulfil his purpose.

God wants us to live as He created us and called us to do. Of course you will be a little nervous and question yourself at times, just as Moses did. But if God is with you, He will confirm what He has called you to do, and empower you to do it. It is through this confirmation from Christ that we will come to know who we are. Once we have Christ in our lives, whatever He sends us out to do, He will be with us and help us to see it through to the end, “Certainly I will be with thee.

  • Christ calls us, and we must have a real relationship with Him to find out what we have been called to do.
  • Christ has promised that He will be with us always.
  • He has sent the Holy Spirit to be with us to empower, teach and guide us.
  • He reassures us when we are discouraged.
  • He gives us the confidence as there is no fear in Him.

Not knowing your true identity is without doubt very debilitating. Christ called the disciples and told them He would make them Fishers of Men. He trained them, empowered them through the Holy Spirit of God then sent them out to the corners of the earth to spread the Gospel. But it would seem that many like to dictate to God as to what they want to do, how they want to do it and not what God has called them to do.

Moses even began pre-empting what the people would ask Him about God. And God’s answer was ‘”I Am that I Am.” When you know who you are in Christ it doesn’t matter what others think of you, or what they try to tell you should be.

Just know that ‘you are who you are,’ in Christ!

A Prayer to take us into the New Year

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Our Father in heaven
I worship your Holy Name
I thank you for sending Jesus Christ into my life
As one year ends another one begins
Thank you for all your blessings
Which you have blessed me with throughout the year
Both the obvious ones that I acknowledged at the time
And the ones that I missed
Because I was too busy focusing on other things
Lord please help me to be a better person from this year on
Help me to let go of the bad, and hold on to the good
To remain focused on You.
I pray for complete healing and wholeness in my mind, body and spirit
I pray a blessing on my family, friends and the strangers I have not met
I pray for the strength of Christ in my life
So that I can endure to the end.
Though we cannot fix this world,
We can have peace in You as we travel through it
Help me to forgive others and help them to forgive me
But more importantly Lord,
Please help me to have a better relationship with You
For it is this relationship above all others that will carry me through.
These things I ask in the name of my Lord Jesus Christ.



I’m struggling to understand my Faith

I dont get itHow often do you hear someone say, “I just don’t GET IT, what’s the fuss all about?” When it comes to anything remotely connected to Faiths or Religions, heated discussions will ensue and more often than not, all parties leave more annoyed or angry than before they started. Then everyone agrees to stay away from such discussions in future, resulting in misconceptions and misunderstandings. This may be acceptable for the world at large, but not so for the Christian believer. For us, the opposite is true. Ignorance and compromise will not help us to understand our Faith; and to be able to fulfil our purpose in Christ, we must reach a point where we truly ‘get it.’ We must understand who Christ is and who we are in Him.

So, you’ve been a Christian for a while now and you still don’t get it! Well, you are not alone. All those moving parts leave you feeling like a deer in the headlights? There are varying levels and degrees of understanding when you first come to Christ, and this is normal. But, the extent to which the confusion is taking hold is far from normal. The enemy doesn’t know when he is beaten and he never gives up. He throws, chaos, confusion and hate into the huge melting pot that is the world, and just keeps on stirring. Picking your way through it whilst staying on the right path can only be compared to a tightrope walker balancing precariously above the heads of the audience at circus. The audience waiting to see if the artist is skilled enough to get from A to B without falling off. In much the same way the Devil and his demons watch and wait to see if we will fall away from the right path. But in the case of the circus performer, they often have a safety net beneath them in-case they fall or for when they are dismounting.

The Christian might think they don’t have a safety net, but we do; we have the Almighty God, who’s hands are big enough to catch us. Sometimes you will wobble, and other times you will fall off; but know that He is always there to catch you and put you back on to continue your journey.

The enemy’s only purpose now; bearing in mind he was unable to fulfil his purpose that he was created for, (which was to walk around looking beautiful, praising and worshipping God and to be a leader (archangel) over the angels put in his care) is to steal your Salvation, kill your Spirit and destroy your Soul. In a nutshell, he wants to prevent you from getting to heaven, so he throws obstacles in your way. If nothing else he is consistent.

John 10:10
The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.

Up to this point it may seem like all doom and gloom and you are wondering if you can win. Can I really make it? Well the short, firm, undeniable answer is YES! You can. This battle we think we have to fight is not ours, Jesus has already fought this battle and He has won it. All you have to do is to:

Stand firm and endure to the end, regardless of what is thrown at you. 

God knows our future but we don’t. So, we are free to chose and make the right decisions without the weight of knowing what the outcome will be. We can grow and develop; become stagnant with little or no evidence of growth or we can slip backwards and return to the life we once had. And, if it was that great in the first place you wouldn’t have left it! Your path is not set. It changes according to the choices you make, so Choose well. 

But how do we achieve the above?

You really, really need to have a live relationship with God. He is your Father who lives, breathes, speaks and loves you with an everlasting love that is unparalleled. He is not a golden image, or a stone figurine on your mantel piece, He is not a character in a fantasy tale. He is real!

It is not enough to get baptised go to church every Sunday and hope for the best. There is so much more to your Christian walk than that. Be curious, have zeal, ask questions regardless of how silly they may seem. If they are important to you; they are important! Challenge the popular belief if it doesn’t rest easy in your Spirit. So many false doctrines and wrong thinking has crept stealthily into the Christian Faith that some are very difficult to separate from the truth. This is a tough one and only God Himself can guide you.

You must start talking to Him. Keep it simple. don’t look at how others are doing it, we are all wonderfully unique. Find your special ‘Me Time’ to connect with God. Don’t wait until 11pm when you have ran around all day for the world and are now tired and can barely think straight. Don’t worry about the kneeling or the closing of eyes or the clasping of hands. Throw yourself on your bed and cry to Him. It doesn’t have to be posh, or refined. He knows who you are and the struggles you are faced with. If you are confused, tell Him; if you are scared, tell Him; if you don’t get it, TELL HIM!

He guides you so gently that often it is only when you get to a place in your life and look back that you realise how far you’ve come, and don’t forget to thank Him. You cannot grow spiritually as a Christian, if you are not connect to the Spirit of God.

Start getting curious and ask questions!

Blood and Fire

Newsletter Cover 051117_4Translating the Bible into English and the Bloody Battle that ensued!

Sacrilegious, contraband, illegal, were just some of the terms used to describe one of the rarest books in the world.  With only 3 copies left; each worth millions of pounds; one of which was on display in October at St. Paul’s Cathedral, England; it is the very first English translation of the Bible (the New Testament). Translated by William Tyndale in 1534, its’ distribution network consisted of dedicated followers of Christ who would hide the Bibles in bales of wool and smuggle them to avoid detection by Customs. It was regarded as contraband and was against the law to translate it into English. To distribute it as well was going against the power and might of Europe. Copies of the Bible was rounded up and burnt; all but 3 copies are in existence today.

The English church was governed from Rome so church services had to be conducted in Latin by law. Translating the Bible into English to enable the common folk to get to know God for themselves was literally a crime, punishable by death. At that time the church acted as mediator between man and God, and only permitted the educated clergy to read the Bible which was translated in Latin.

Two years after Tyndale translated the Bible, he was executed and burnt as a heretic. But against all the odds, he was able to fulfil his purpose to make the Bible accessible to everyone and not just the elite by man’s standard. Today over 80% of the King James Bible (KJV) comes from Tyndale’s original translation. The KJV remains the most accurate translation of the Bible from the original Greek scrolls.

During this time of reformation, anyone who preached the true Gospel and attempted to open the eyes of people to the truth of Jesus Christ were killed and labelled as a heretic. The term simply means someone who challenged the doctrine of the established church; the Roman Catholic Church at that time. The irony here is that ‘Heresy’ had been declared by Pope Innocent III in 1199 as treason against God; and was regarded as the worst of all crimes. Yet it was these very leaders themselves who were actually committing crimes against God and all that Jesus stood for! They abused their position of power, making the laws of the land to control the masses. Many followers of Christ who stayed true to the Gospel died horrific deaths. From the Apostles some two thousand years ago, through generation after generation; and people are still being killed for their belief in Christ.

Every generation of true Christians experience persecution and suffering. Same thing, different package! Yet Christianity remains the largest faith in the world. The Bible continues to be the bestselling book of all time and tops the best seller list every year; having sold billions through the centuries.

Many, many men and women of God died to make the Bible and its’ teachings available to us. And the more God’s people are persecuted, the more they are victorious over the plans of the devil. Regardless of the war raged against Tyndale and the true followers of Christ, we have complete access to the Word of God today; Victory! But how did we get the Bible? Over the following months we will follow the journey of the Bible; a book forged in blood and persecutions, claiming the lives of some of the greatest, determined, driven and above all; righteous individuals of our time. Wycliffe, the first of the Bible-men, during a time of brutal persecutions said:

“They mined it (the Bible) for individual texts to use in debates and sermons, and they wrote copious notes and glosses on passages within it. But their approach was logical and scholastic; they did not think of it as a work that was alive and breathing, like the God who had created it. It was a priestly text, dusty, locked up in Latin, safely beyond the reach of the English at large. Religion had come to mean the Church itself, and its traditions.”

Many in this age would happily take us back to these dark ages, but the sooner we realise that the Bible is the Living Word of God, the sooner it will be life to us!

What does being unequally yoked mean?

Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. 2 Corinthians 6:14-16

The subject of being ‘unequally yoked’ for a Christian continues to be a bone of contention. It really shouldn’t; but often we want the Bible to fit in with our lives and seem only able to accept Christ on our terms. The Bible however will not change, we cannot add or take anything away from it, and if we don’t agree with it there is precious little we can do. So, as usual I like to keep things simple.

Firstly, God always gives us a choice. There are some requirements for holy living where God says we categorically must not do something and must live a certain way, or we will not enter the kingdom of heaven. And there are other requirements where God says, we should not do something because if we do it we will have problems which will make it difficult for us to maintain a righteous life in Him. As a result we will struggle unnecessarily and could fall away from Him. The subject of being unequally yoked falls in the latter category.

To be ‘yoked’ is to be joined together in a close relationship, any relationship; not just marriage. As Christians we usually think of this term in regards to a Christian marrying a non-Christian, but it is far more than that. The Apostle Paul addresses the Corinthians, who at the time were not living a righteous life, they were making all sorts of mistakes. They had close relationships with idol worshippers and false prophets, the lines were blurred with believers and unbelievers fellowshipping together. As a result of this, they did not recognise Paul as the true follower of Christ and was rejecting him.

The world today is a difficult, complicated, melting pot of evil, hate and pain; masking itself with the sole intent to deceive and destroy the innocent. God has opened the eyes of His believers so they will see it for what it is and live accordingly, avoiding the unholiness of the world. Living a righteous and holy life in this world, is difficult enough even when you are equally ‘yoked,’ believing in the same doctrine of Christ and living according to the same principles.

Paul challenges this situation, be it friendships or relationships; of which marriage is the closest. For when we are married to someone who is an unbeliever; we know Christ; while they do not. We worship while they do not. They still enjoy the worldly living while we do not or should not. Our lifestyle and choices will be different which will inevitably cause problems and divisions in the relationship.

Paul is not saying here that this is a ‘deal breaker’ or that you will lose your Salvation, although as a Christian, worldly influences could pull you away from Christ which could result in you losing your salvation if not recognised and acted upon. He is saying that the two are not equally matched. To be yoked with others who preach completely different doctrines that goes against the Bible, to be yoked with idol worshippers; those who live a riotous life which you are trying to live a righteous life is counter productive to the Christian walk.

God gives us the freedom to make our own choices, but tells us very clearly in the Bible that certain choices will make our lives difficult.

Whilst there are many marriages and close relationships joining believers to non-believers; how many can say they can sit down and pray together, discuss God together, read and understand the Bible together or both look forward to the day when they meet our Saviour in heaven? For such a relationship to work, there has to be a lot of compromise so one will not offend the other, boundaries which cannot be crossed, a dividing line to allow each to ‘do their thing’ whilst coming together to fellowship. It is difficult at best!

When believers are yoked with unbelievers; we will not be able to share or exchange intimate thoughts and feelings, especially on a mental or spiritual level; but the Lord still allows us to chose the people in our lives.

It should also be noted here that Christians can be unequally yoked to other Christians. How is this possible you ask? Well, Paul actually speaks of believers and unbelievers, which we often refer to as Christians and non-Christians. With over 2 billion Christians in the world today, it is safe to say that there are varying degrees of belief in the true Gospel of Christ. There are some Christians who do not believe in Jesus Christ and His teachings. Many have taken what pleases them and mixed it with a little of this and a little of that and created their own hybrid ‘religion’ still referring to it as Christianity. To be yoked to someone claiming to be a Christian but not truly believing in Jesus Christ and His teachings… the fullness of the Word of God; is to be unequally yoked.

God is merciful and loves us so much that as long as there is a Christian in the household that household will be blessed. On the topic of marriage the Lord is not saying that if your partner is a non-believer you should be parted from them; on the contrary. God loves marriage, it was ordained by Him. So an unbelieving husband or wife is sanctified through the husband or wife who believes in Christ and is living a righteous life. That union is blessed, it is not any less of a marriage than the marriage of two believers. But we need to know that there will be struggles because fundamentally both parties still have different beliefs.

Babes in Christ

Christians fix up

Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. John 3:3

The fragile state of a new born babe cannot be denied. They are completely reliant on the parents or guardians. They don’t understand our language; we need some time to understand their signs; they can’t care for themselves; they need to learn all about their new world that they have been born into. They need to be nurtured! Some are more challenging than others, so we don’t abandon those, on the contrary, we put more effort into caring for them. And all this takes time as they grow and develop into strong adults!

You are probably thinking at this stage that we all know this, mankind has been around for a while now so what point am I making here?! Well, the point is that this is the same for a ‘new born babe’ in Christ. The new Christian, the new Convert, the newly Saved… they are babes in Christ! and in much the way as a new born babe, they need care, guidance, nurturing as they make their way through their spiritual life to becoming spiritual adults. They too have to learn a new language, train their mind to think in a different way; their bodies to react in a different way and their tongues to speak in a different way… all new to them. As they grow and develop spiritually they will become stronger and not so dependent on others, though we must always love and support each other throughout out lives.

Having said all this why then do we as Christians get it wrong so often? New converts who are able to adjust well and quickly seem to be embraced while the ones who are finding it more challenging and are struggling in many ways; often finding it difficult to shake of the residue of the world; are ignored, avoided, side-stepped. Sometimes they are blatantly dismissed or subtly ignored! Not only have I seen this happen, but many have shared their experiences with me over the years; and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better.

First and foremost, many seem to lack understanding and knowledge; then progress on to a lack of patience and empathy when it comes to helping others. If someone is deemed to be too challenging; few are prepared to go the extra mile with them. Yet, Christ went further than the extra mile with us and continues to do so today! If we are spiritual adults who follow Christ and love each other as Christ has loved us; we should never be overcome with the task of nurturing the new babes to the point where we give up with them ultimately leading to them giving up on themselves.

Our Christian walk is “not about us! It is about others.” It’s always been about loving and helping others.

We need to help them to nurture their relationship with God, through studying the Word of God (the Bible) which will teach them how to communicate effectively with God through prayer; to enable them to grow into strong spiritual adults:

1 Peter 2:2
As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

All too often and more so in these latter days Christianity seems to be so exclusive, with a real ‘them’ and ‘us’ attitude. If we don’t ‘fix up’ and sort ourselves out we do the name of Christ an injustice.

Reach out today and help someone who is struggling in their Faith!

Recommended Reading:
My Alabaster Box: A Simple Guide Through The Christian Journey